Just out of curiosity, Id love to hear more of your story as far as why you and your husband were so unhappy what happened, did you do anything to try to work on your marriage, did he know how unhappy you were, did you ever talk about it or go to counseling, etc. Theres no wrong reason to end a relationship, and I think its important for you to embrace that fact to help you move on from your marriage. Once you have acknowledged what you did wrong and vow to do better in the future, its in your own and your childrens best interests to have compassion for yourself (not to be confused with self-pity). Obviously I have work to do on myself, I am not perfect. Six months since I left him for another man. Therapy. Relationships are messy and wonderful and awful, and I believe that ALL those messy/wonderful/awful stories are worth telling and reading. However, she slowly accepted the truth because she said she loved me very much. Sep 10, 2021 01:00 A.M. My husband left me for a younger woman because he could not stand my body. Seems like this world should just abolish it and be done so to save all the honest people of the world from actually believing when someone says theyll love them till final days. So many times, people try to tell us that its okay or we didnt really hurt anyone. It was an average marriage, probably above average to those looking in from the outside. During that time, the time when I tried to make it work for everyone else and failed completely, the look of concern and panic on the faces of my children was gut-wrenching. I never, ever would have thought I would leave him. Copyright 2003 - 2021 Offbeat Empire. He tried to just drop me off at the corner of my familys house like I was a nobody and cried my eyes out saying sorry for I dont even know what I was about 18 at the time. I will not marry my exwife You are my daughter, and I love you dearly.". This is the part where I meet someone we hit it off and since then about 5 years now were together but not together. It still hurts sometimes though, and it will take time to get over that for both of us I think. I would just wait for the bad to end and the good to start. Thats Gods job anyway. We used to spend all the time together and now I was away from home two to three times a week A lot of times when she was younger, she went hungry. My boyfriend & his wife were our friends. My marriage was almost 30 years. I really cant get over the guilt I feel, even though I am happy and feel like my new husband is a true partner to me. Swearing theres nothing going onmeanwhile my kids are waiting for us to go out for Mothers Day dinner together. Its often not about the other person, but about our own weaknesses and areas for growth. I know that my ex is at fault too, but the vast majority of cause and guilt is mine. Marriage is about committing to working together to create a healthy relationship despite being unhappy. When I got home that night, I decided to confront James. The man I vowed to stick out all the tough times with. Here is what I have come to understand now: the absence of bruises does not mean the absence of abuse. Being with her completed me. "The private investigator was able to find out about you, and since then, I've been keeping an eye on Maia.". I wouldnt have been giving him all that he deserves. My soon-to-be-ex-husband made me take custody of our four animals which includes three cats. Judge much, A? Thank you for being brave enough to share your story, even though it must have been difficult and hard to do. 2.2M views, 55K likes, 1.2K loves, 1.1K comments, 3.9K shares, Facebook Watch Videos from Nigeria Ghana Love Tv: She left her husband and the kids for a Rich man but later regretted it Great movie Its hard to talk about because cheating isnt a good thing. 10% wrong.really? At that point her mileage and baggage are too high, and she gets a cat or a few cats because nobody wants anything to do with her. After being busy reading her book the entire afternoon, an old womanrealizes a boy sitting across her was left unattended at a park for hours. My parents are still alive and very healthy, and theyre going to croak when they find out Im moving in with my boyfriend. The truth will also set you free. I shouldnt have bc 7 years later I catch him out on a lunch date for Mothers Day with the same woman. But the truth was, James didn't want to be a father, and I realized that too late. And yet we are supposed to friends now. We moved in together 2 weeks after our first kiss, but we knew each other 2 years prior. My husband was not a bad person, but we have been through so much financially over the last 10 years, I just never felt secure and anything he said or did. I left my perfect husband for the perfect woman. You can buy a house, or two houses, if you are really rich. You think that what you have is special(Didnt you once believe your previous relationship was once special?) After a couple of visits to several orphanages, we came across a little girl named Maia, whom I immediately fell in love with. Everyone deserves to find their own happiness, and in a perfect world that would happen not the expense of others, but the world isnt perfect. We slept together, in an innocent way, every night. He has also served jail time for domestic violence.